Internet Screaming at How Squeamish Husband Supports Sick Wife

Nobody enjoys being sick, and being around someone who is vomiting can be even worse. However, in such situations, most people would at least try to help with a gentle rub on the back.

One man, though, has found a creative alternative that allows him to offer support without getting too close to the mess. That effort was documented by his wife, Kailey Willis, who recorded herself kneeling on the bathroom floor, presumably near the toilet. But that’s not why her video has racked up over 8.6 million views.

It’s the mop being used to rub her back while her husband hides around the corner that has captured the internet’s attention.

The on-screen text read: “When you’re throwing up and your husband refuses to watch but wants to support you.”

This hilarious and relatable moment, shared to @kailey_willis on November 20, has gathered 1.5 million likes and more than 3,500 comments.

One commenter empathized with the husband, writing: “Ok no but I understand his pain, if someone is sick I can’t watch or I will be too.” Another user added: “I’d love to be more supportive but unfortunately my body just doesn’t cooperate. Seeing or even hearing someone puke makes me too.”

A third commenter joked: “In sickness and in health… from a distance,” earning 84,800 likes at the time of writing.

One viewer shared a personal struggle: “I have emetophobia and I can’t even be in the house when my husband throws up. I do text him and make sure he’s okay though lol.”

Indeed, feeling squeamish or physically unwell when witnessing someone vomit isn’t just an overreaction—it can be a phobia known as emetophobia.

What is Emetophobia?

The Anxiety Disorders Association of America (ADAA) explains that emetophobia is an intense fear of vomiting that can provoke overwhelming anxiety triggered by vomiting, seeing vomit, hearing others vomit, or experiencing feelings of nausea.

Classified as an anxiety disorder, emetophobia goes beyond the general dislike of being sick. Those affected live in a constant state of fear and avoidance, often experiencing debilitating panic that significantly impacts their quality of life.

Common Symptoms of Emetophobia:

• Restricting food intake to avoid feeling nauseous or vomiting.
• Avoiding hospitals or medical facilities for fear of contracting illnesses that may cause vomiting.
• Steering clear of certain foods known to trigger nausea.
• Avoiding specific smells that evoke nausea-related associations.
• Feeling extreme discomfort with words or discussions related to vomiting.
• Eating only in “safe” locations, such as home.
• Obsessing over the location of restrooms or trash cans as a precautionary measure.

This condition can severely limit daily life, but with proper treatment, individuals can work toward managing their fear and improving their overall well-being.

Newsweek reached out to @kailey_willis for comment via TikTok. We could not verify the details of the case.

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